Monday, April 14, 2014

Jackie Addison Kadel's autobiography

I have several versions of Jackie's story, plus updates. These span about 1979 to 1991. I have done my best to blend them, only adding some punctuation. Any notes in brackets are for clarification or added information.

Anita Fay Addison was born August 16, 1912 at 6:30 p.m. in the house known as the "Old Ted Dollen Place," the last house going north, it's the 2nd street after you come into Minden from the south, Road L66.  There is a street directly in front of this road, but that is _____.  You go right to the end of the street, it sits on the left side or west side and still there [I believe this house is at 507 Brady Street] .  If I remember right - could {have} been across from the little house where LD and Wilford Chase lived.



[This is the house Jackie wrote about.  It was Dess and Minnie's first house, where they moved in 1902, the year they married. This picture was taken about 1996, and Vera told me that the back part of the house was probably added later.]

My parents took me when I was 6 weeks old around Oct. 16 to the acreage that was know as the "Old Cook Place." {Picture to be inserted later.}

When I was about 3 years old the house, a 2-story house, caught fire.  Mom said Pop was drinking in town one nite and sent the hired man up to get some overcoats out of the clothes closet.  Pop had parked down below the hill so Mom wouldn't know he was there, evidently the hired man was also drunk and used matches and caught the clothes afire.  Brother "Bud" Dessie Jr was a baby, probably 6 weeks old, and Mom wrapped him in a blanket, we had a young hired boy who slept upstairs -  "Louie Fritz" - Mom handed him the bundle and not realizing what it was he tossed him into a snowdrift.  Our Mother made a number of trips into the house getting drawers (Bud's clothes) from dresser, a large mirror, an old clock, and Irene (sis) saved the thunder mug.  I can remember with each entry, Irene, Leona, and I would scream with terror for her safety.

We had an old barn or  sort of a machine shop we lived in until Pop bought the old school house in Minden and moved it out,  I had measles while living in this shed with dirt floors.

My Dad ram a rendering plant, moved houses, and dug wells.

When I was 5 years old, Irene, Leona, and I went to the country school a mile south.  We walked every day. Many winters I can remember the road was full of snow and so deep you could barely see the top of the fence posts.  Mom always dressed us warm.  I remember one night, Irene and I decided to stay and skate on the creek, with the Ehler girls, Margaret and Irene, and the Falk boys, Otto, Ed, and Elmer.  We were having a ball when I looked up and there stood Pop, switch in hand - we came up that bank on high.  Irene ran ahead but I loitered.  Pop really laid it on me and did I get my legs switched. Guess Mom was worried as it was getting dark.  I'll say one thing, we never tried that again.

When I was 11 in the sixth grade, Pop sent Irene and I to Minden school, paying $54.00 each for
tuition.  We were not in that township and when we went into the 9th grade, the tuition quit.  We never got to participate in any school sports or activities.  I remember once going to a school carnival.  I passed every year, but they kept Irene in the eighth grade two years to get that $54.00.  Irene quit when they passed her into the ninth grade.  Pop had LD Chase and his son [Wilford] working for us.  Wilford started going with Irene.  During my 9th and 10th grades, I used to go or ride into town with Irene and Willy and always rode back with them.  This was on Saturday nights.  After they got married, I was able to go with the girls.  Barn dances were all the rage.  Also, Neola had a big dance hall and the barn dance was at Hanberry's.  Hester Kadel and Helen would pick up Pearl Schuning, the two Hiller girls and me and after the dance was over shed let me out first then Pearl, the Hiller girls, and then on to the Kadels'.  Uncle Mike lived about one mile south from the Hillers.  I spent many beautiful hours on the "Old Home Place."  Bud (Dessie, Jr.) and I were inseparable.  We rode horses bareback.  Bud rode Tom (white one) and I rode Jerry (red).  We spent hours at the pond and played in the creek - knew every little pebble.

I walked two miles to town school down the railroad tracks.  The summer days were beautiful - every morning after I crossed the first RR trestle, a pair of little bluebirds flitted through the grass.  Wildflowers bloomed on the railroad track banks.  There were pick sweet Williams, orange and yellow honeysuckle, violets, wild pink roses, and bluebells.  You could always find wild strawberries.  They were small but sweet and juicy.  Also we ate the young sprouts of wild onions.  I saw my first pheasant rooster - a beautiful bird - and was telling Mom about it.  She never commented too much - now I wonder if she even knew what kind of a bird I was referring to, as pheasants were released in Minnesota and Iowa about that time.  I was in the eighth grade, so that made me about 13 so the year was 1924-25.

When Pop accumulated $10,000.00 he figured he could retire and decided to move to Council Bluffs.  Boy was I unhappy to leave friends and fun.  We had a farewell party and even had an orchestra.  At first I missed my friends and gradually acquired new ones and got a "housework" job.  Two dollars and a half a week, paid every two weeks.  When school started, I enrolled at A.L. High School - went six weeks and quit.  Later I attended Boyles College in 1932.

The first house the folks moved into was 1120 7th Ave, then1105 5th Ave., then 1109 5th Ave.  Three houses on one block.  Depression hit about this time and Pop lost all his cash, invested in a garage and the crooked mechanic ruined his business.  You could buy a house dress for 39 cents, a bra for 25 cents, but you didn't have any money.

Bud begged Mom and Pop for a bike.  Finally they gave in.  We were living at 1127 5th Ave, and Bud had Vera on the bike uptown.  A car bumped him or he rode into the car, bruised his knee.  Infection set in and gangrene.  There was no sulfa.  The folks took him to Jennie Ed. and in 3 days he died - on Mom's birthday, November 8, 1930.  He would have been 15 years old his next birthday.  This was a terrible blow to Mom and Pop.  Mom lost 30 pounds and Pop quit drinking for one year.  When he started drinking again, Mom started proceedings for a divorce.  We still lived at 1127, but she went back to him.

Pop and Mom would go out and sell chicken medicine and Mom helped to cull hens. We moved to the three rooms up over the garage.  Pop had his business below (mechanic) and later into a basement apartment.  I can't get this straightened out just when we moved into the above, but I'm sure 1127 was the last location.  While living at 1127 5th Ave.  Some days I drove for Pop and he'd pay me [a] percentage on each gallon he sold.  Mom helped Dr. Anderson with his patients - each one had had abortions and stayed with Mom to recuperate.

About this time I was working at a little cafe on South Main Street when I met a fellow that worked there - don't know what he did, but anyway, Tom Sullivan was from Oklahoma.  We were kidding around and when he asked me to marry him, I jokingly said "yes, for 6 months," then if we're getting along OK would try another 6 months. 

The way the depression was, Pop decided to move back to the farm or acreage.  We were married, we went out there too.  Pop hired Tom - can't remember how much he started out with - not much wages.  We lived upstairs over the No. 2 barn.  The walls had 1 x 4 boards and also ceiling.  I got a linoleum for the floors.

Pop had Tom, Wilford, and Hank [Osbahr] dig the ditch from the well in the pasture to lay water pipes.  They contacted the light company and signed a 50-year contract to get electricity out there.  He decided to start up the plant again. 

We lived upstairs and during this time in two years Tom would just come up missing - be gone maybe two weeks or longer. Pop said, "Jack, he is not reliable or dependable."  He didn't suggest to leave him, but he planted the seed.

Elsie and Chester Kadel, Mom's sister, and [their sons] Elmer, Ervin, Don, and Floyd came down in 1935 until after Thanksgiving.  Ervin, Elmer, and Don decided to stay and find work.  They stayed with Mike Kadel and with Tom and I.  One night after a big party at Irene's, all the men were drinking and a fight started.  I told Tom to get lost.  this was Feb. 1936.  Elmer drove to C.B. or somewhere and I never saw him again.  The boys continued staying with me and Elmer and Don cut wood and sold fish.  Erv worked for Pop at the plant.  I sued for a divorce.  Aunt Lucy verified my grounds, can't remember what on now.

Pop sent Vera to Shelby school - that made the town pay her tuition so he got even on holding Irene, then sent her to A.L. where she graduated and went to beauty school. [Vera told me that she stayed with people in town and came home sometimes for weekends, not sure how often that occurred.]

October 18, 1936, Elmer and I were married in Rockport, Mo.  Vera and Mom went along.  Being cousins, decided not to have children.  We had a stormy marriage, smooth at first.  The boys drank on Saturday nights only, as they didn't have any money.  The boys would buy a pint of whiskey for 50 cents and a pack of tailor-made cigarettes which was a treat as we had a roller and made our own cigarettes.  Especially Wings, Elmer said "Fatima" but that's not right.  You couldn't buy a job then.  Later on, Pop raised Elmer's wages - imagine $5.00 a week, then $7.50 up to $12.00.  I had a charge at Spiegel and Elmer had 3 suits.  We were paying $3.00 a month.  With the increased wages, Elmer drank more and we both gambled - cards and dice.  We were broke every Monday morning.

I bought a Florence oil-burning stove -- three small and one large burner.  I got this from the hardware store - Hank Johanson ran it, got it on credit.  Boy, was I proud of it.  We had no rent and our light was a bright Aladdin lamp.  We had a battery radio and listened to programs such as "The Shadow Knows" and "Squeaky Door" (Inner Sanctum).  We used our imagination, then when the battery ran down, we had to wait until we had the money to have it charged.  This was a regular car battery.  On nights when we had no radio, I read to Elmer, Don, and Ervin.  On weekends when Vera was home from school, Vera and I played the guitar, sang, and harmonized.  Some nights were spent playing cards and every noon Elmer and I played Chinese checkers.  he beat me every day.  Boy, was I mad!

Henry Osbahr worked for Pop an in 1941 Pop sold the well digging business to him.  They lived in the little shack south of the orchard where they added two rooms.  When he acquired the well business, they moved to Neola and we moved into it.  I raised chickens - usually 500 a year, but one year 1200.  Kept laying hens and sold them to the Blue and White Store to Eddie Elias and had a credit all winter for groceries.  Also had a couple hogs.  We didn't eat them, sold them to get extra money.

One Sunday morning in 1941, Mom called and said, "The Japs bombed Pearl Harbor."  Our navy troops were in the harbor and thousands [approximately 2400] were killed.  All men were told to register and those helping the war cause were given a rating.  Elmer, working at the plant supplying grease, etc., was not called.  Erv and Don did not pass physicals, were 4F.  In 1942, Elmer and Earl left for Long Beach, California (after going to aircraft school in Omaha), and they went to work at Douglas Aircraft.  I left on Feb. 14 and drove out alone in our 1941 Studebaker.  We owed quite a few bills.  I got a job at Owl Drug on Ocean and Pacific and we sent money back each week and got out of debt.  I was terribly homesick and we finally left on Mother's Day for Iowa.

Pop bought the Overgaard 40 acres on the edge of town and we moved into it (Vera owns it now).

In 1945 a friend, Arlene Caddell, whose husband was in the navy, ran around with us - Erv, Elmer, I, Irma, and Don.  Think Arlene played them all.  Anyway, she became pregnant and we befrieded her IF she would let us have the baby.  We paid all her hospital bill and apartment rent.  On May 25th, 1945, she gave birth to a beautiful little 4 lb., 10 oz. baby girl.  We named her Karen Kolean Kadel.  irene, my sis, lived in Oakland in Dane Town so I took her there for two weeks.  At this time, we had leased the rendering plant from Pop for 5 years at $100 a week, due every Monday morning.  We had been running ir for 10 months when Pop heard that Uncle George Addison at Oakland sold his plant for $100,000 so Pop decided to sell his and got $40,000.  We released him from his contract.  Had it been reversed, I'm afraid he would not have agreed to it.

We moved to Minnesota.  Elmer went up and bought Ernie Veazie's oil station.  We had a van haul up the furniture.  This was a bad move.  We moved a house in from Erhardt, material was hard to get and expensive.  It rained again and again and the basement caved in and it cost us double.  We bought a big gas truck.  Lost all our money.  I took the World-Herald while living in Minn and one day saw an ad for a tavern in Henderson, Iowa, so we drove down, looked at it, decided to take it.  We mortgaged the station for $1,000 and Elmer sent me back down to Iowa.  I paid Ed Stenger $1,000 down to take it over the first of May, 1949.  We had to dig up half of the amount, he wanted $8,000 plus inventory.  I went to Neola, saw Hall to borrow.  he said, "You better get it from your old Dad" - no way!  I went to Shelby, Mr. Stoker said he'd loan us the money IF we got two good co-signers so I went to Uncle Mike.  He told me he'd sign if Hank Johhansen would sign it (his bro.-in-law).  Went back into Minden, told Hank and he agreed so the Shelby bank loaned us the money.  We ran the tavern, Elmer stayed up over the drugstore.  I had sent for a lounge - the kind you open up, just springs and mattress.   He put a partition in the back room.  We had table and chairs and ate or cooked on a 2-hole gas stove in the tavern part.  We kept our nose to the grindstone pretty steady, only going to Playland Park occasionally with Karen.

When we left Minn., we tried to sell the oil station.  Red (Earl) Kadel ran it for a while after he came back from the Navy.  Finally sold it to a friend in Omaha, Brenaman.  We took a trailer in on it.  Elizabeth Edmondson, a good friend, sued August (Duysen) for divorce, and she rented it and took it out to Boileau's.

Red came down after we sold the station and bought the little cafe from Boileau's and then got a beer license - it hurt us.

Elmer and Erv went to work in Wyoming for PFE.  I ran the tavern.  We had a fish fry every Friday night.

As the legion hall also sold beer and liquor and we had to put up with drunks from Macedonia, I started fixing spiked drinks.  When Elmer got back we continued.  One night we were having a dance for Randolph Dinwiddie's birthday when we were raided.  They closed us up for a week.

Art Fritcher was Mayor and showed his authority.  I applied for a license and the council tried to find something on me.  Louie Farrington even drove to Minden inquiring about my character.

After Red had his tavern, Elmer went to work for August Young (plumbing).  He worked 12 years until he fell into a basement and was laid up and operated on for a crushed disc.  He was in and out of the hospital at different intervals for allergies, neck, and hernia.  I was operated on in 1969 for an infected appendix, home in less than a week.  Maxine Ford worked for us then.

In 1971, Pop decided to go into the hospital for a checkup.  Irene and I walked with him into the hospital.  He began to get worse so we called Vera and she came back.  Dorothy ??? worked for him then.  She was really concerned until he had a stroke, then she backed off.

On the way home, out by the oil station on 92, I was alone and smelled cigar smoke.  I knew.  By the time I got into the tavern, Elmer said you gotta go back, your Dad is dying.  We three girls were there, Vera by his bedside.  Irene got all upset, went out in the hall with her.

We leased the bar to Hap Nims and went on a vacation.  Hap got a job with the gas company so we took it back.  We leased to Rolland Frain, then sold it on a contract to Chas. Crow.  He flubbed up, we foreclosed and sold it to Joe Marchese.  He didn't last long either.  He was quite a womanizer.  His wife would not stay out here.  Took it back and sold it to Ott.  When he didn't want to keep, we closed the doors and sold the fixtures.  This was the happiest moment of my life as Elmer was putting in long hours and drinking heavily.

When Pop died, we were left with 136 acres of land, we leased it first on half, then cash rented it.  We purchased a house in Red Oak while still in the tavern.  Junior Gage (Opal's husband) told us about it.  He went in on half, but his health did not permit him to help Elmer remodel so we bought his share out for $400.  We rented this house for $85 a month then sold it on contract to the one gal that runs the taxi in Red Oak.  We moved 3 houses into Henderson - one booster station house and its office building, one house from Macedonia, remodeled them and sold two.  Gave Karen the office building after she was divorced from Mike in July 1974.  We bought two houses in Macedonia and one acreage.  Had 3 trailers, 2 trailers on lots and 2 we are renting.  We bought the May Wight building, Elmer had his tools and equipment in there.  After we sold the fixtures out of the tavern, he moved his tools, belts, etc, into the tavern building.  I went to household sales and put junk in my building, sold lots of stuff.  Elmer put an old wood stove into the shop and cut wood all summer to save heat.

Prices have not went up in the last two years, 1977-1979.  Gasoline today is almost $1.00 a gallon.

We bought shares in gasohol and they went broke.  Irene, my sister, moved to Henderson and bought the Lolla Harbor residence.  Our only grocery store closed in 1978.

The town of Henderson now has a town hall, library, firehouse, meat market, cafe, auto wash, tavern, oil station, elevator, bank, insurance office, and a new fertilizer co., Slump and Steiner.  Three empty buildings on the south side, 2 of ours and 1 of Ervin's.

6/1/86 - since writing this the bank closed, insurance office and cafe.  Have on main street on north side Leo Rieken's shop, Brown's building _____, old post office building empty, post office now in cafe building, Ole's (old Hillard shop) closed most of the time, tavern, the oil station closed, and car wash on south side empty, barber shop.  A new firehouse has been built.

10/25/91 - Leo Reikert took the top off the old Hendrix building, bulldozed the locker and Brown building.  Gerald Viner's old garage torn down.  Glen Dean bought it, also he bought the old oil station, tore that building down.

On some of these pages I probably have repeated, but I think I covered quite a bit about the family plus our personal life.

Karen has two sons, Guy Michael Bodwell, b. 7/14/66, and Jason Vincent Bodwell, b. 6/25/69.

Today, Ocrober 26, 1991, we sold tavern building, my bulding, all houses on contracts.

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